I'm married and I'm messing with a married man. A few days ago he told me he has caught feelings. I did fall in love with him but I can't bring myself to tell him in fear that he may be playing with my emotions. We've been messing around for almost three years, is it possible he is telling the truth?
It’s possible. But you shouldn’t get a divorce because you caught feelings for the person you’re cheating with. Here’s why:
This analogy may seem weird at first, but humor me for a second.
You know how children always love their aunts and uncles? Aunts and uncles are fun because they buy you stuff, they’re always happy to see you. They’re not always on your case about shit like your parents.
Aunts and Uncles are fun because they only have to see you when they want to. They don’t have to deal with you 24hrs a day, feed you, clothe you, discipline you, make you do homework. They aren’t your parents so they don’t have the responsibility of the dirty work. That’s why they seem so great.
This nigga you’re cheating with is an “uncle”.
He’s not tasked with the dirty work. Managing bills with you, running a home with you. Smelling your period farts when its that time of the month. Seeing you looking busted when you take that sew in out and don’t have any makeup on.
Your husband deals with that shit on the daily. Your husband represents real life and the not-so-fun things that come with it. That’s why the side nigga seems so great. Your side nigga is a vacation from the responsibilities in your real life.
I’m not telling you not to cheat. I’m just telling you not to throw away your marriage for greener pastures. Because if you do… your side nigga won’t be the “uncle” anymore… Things won’t be so great. And you might regret your decision.
Holy crap was I following a lot of pointless blogs. Yes…pointless. As in…there was no point to them. I mean I never reblogged any of the content they had or anything. But who cares….still have a handful of people that I do follow and do reblog from. If I am in your followers list, YOU PERSON ARE COOL!
Besides that. I’ve been playing a lot of Destiny and MAN THAT GAME IS SOMETHING. I hate it and yet I like it. If only Bungie just worked out the kinks in it then I wouldn’t mumble my frustrations much.
Anywho…I’m a few levels away from hitting the cap on my first character and thought about doing a second character only with a twist; doin it LIVE ON TWITCH. I mean yeah…I should get SOME use out of it right? I’ll post on here when I’ll be on and such and if you wanna watch and talk to me, I’ll post a link. I’ll be more than happy to play with people. Especially with any of you guys if you so happen to have an XBox One. More comin’ soon. As far as my youtube channel is concerned, I would really have to sit down and think it through on what to do and how to do it and such and even knowing what to put on there. Bleh…laziness….kickin…in……fuck.